Things now are just crazy and I’ve realized a bunch of stuff that’s affected my emotional and mental health. I’ve spent a lot of time scrolling through tiktok and using it to keep myself busy.
It helped quite a bit, but I was still feeling empty.
As I scrolled down, I read people’s posts on witchtok about how manifesting works.
One of the things that intrigued me is the content that I saw in one of my social media accounts, with a caption, “the power of manifesting.” It worked for her; she got the things that she manifested years ago.
What Is Manifestation?
If you’re not familiar with this term, manifestation is somehow a law of attraction. You simply bring the idea that you want to achieve or have into your life and claim or believe that you’ll have it.
It also involves willpower and positive thinking to attract all the positive energy that surrounds you.
The Laws of Attraction
Before I discuss the steps on how to manifest love, let me go through the laws of attraction to further explain manifestation more.
Particularly, there are seven laws of attraction:
- The Law of Manifestation
- The Law of Magnetism
- The Law of Pure Desire
- The Law of Paradoxical Intent
- The Law of Harmony
- The Law of Right Action
- The Law of Expanding Influence
Three of these laws have particular influence over manifesting.
The Law of Manifestation
Of course, the law of manifestation is on this list. This law states that being aware of the decisions that I make in the present is the key to manifest. I have to be consciously aware to prioritize what’s truly important to me to avoid any distractions.
Since the mind is the powerful tool that I can use to manifest, I need to clear my mind and set the goal that I want — which is love. Also, this law states that it works in both ways, meaning I can attract positive energy, but I can also attract negative energy if I’ll have doubts and negative thoughts.
The Law of Pure Desire
It states here that the law of attraction will only work if I have a pure and strong desire to achieve my manifestation. Confusion should be thrown out the window since it will just hinder me from manifesting my desire.
I also need to be true to myself about my greatest dream and be fearless to grab it when an opportunity comes. For me to be able to fulfill my desire, I need to genuinely believe that I am worthy to have it.
The Law of Right Action
In this law, I learned that how I treat others can attract or reject manifestation. Action speaks louder than words — this is one of the sayings that I truly believe in. I learned in this law that simply being good and doing kind acts — even small ones — can attract positive energy.
The energy of the universe works like a magnet, so if I give wholeheartedly and purely, the universe will give it back to me the same way. This can also go on the opposite side; the more you think negatively then you’ll attract all the negative energy around you.
How to Manifest Love
1. Believe in Yourself
Before looking for love, I must believe that I deserve the purest love in the world. If I can give unconditional love to others, then I should believe that I am worthy. Before looking for someone to love, I must also love myself first.
The saying “how can you love others if you can’t even love yourself” is very important to manifesting love.
2. Take Action
Manifesting is nothing without action. Since my desire is clear, I should create a plan on how I can achieve love. I can try socializing and welcoming new people into my life — closing my doors to others will not help me achieve my manifestation. I should be willing to embrace change and step out of my comfort zone.
3. Focus on Positive Energy
I am worthy of love.
Of course, we are all worthy, and to achieve this mindset, I need to have a positive attitude towards others and be positive within myself. If I often overthink and feel that I don’t deserve the best, then my manifestations won’t be very effective. If I really want to manifest love then I should also learn to value and love myself more.
4. Always Be Grateful and Humble
Being able to say that “I am worthy” takes a lot of confidence, but I also need to stay humble and be grateful for the universe’s blessings. I should appreciate all the things that I have instead of thinking what are the things that I don’t have.
I should also acknowledge my flaws and turn them into something positive. Be thankful for all the challenges that made me who I am today.
5. Believe That the Universe Will Give You the Best
To some, manifesting doesn’t work, but keep in mind that you need to be patient because the universe will give what’s best for us.
The universe is not a genie in a lamp that will instantly grant your wish — manifestation takes time. I need to invest in myself and bring out my positive side to attract positive energy. Also, I believe that the universe has the perfect timing for all of us; we just need to be patient.
“What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create.”
Love is the most powerful thing in the world — who doesn’t want to be loved, right? For us to find love, the universe will teach us what love is first. For us to manifest love, we need to learn how to love ourselves first.