How do you manifest a specific person into your life? Well, the best way is to use the right manifestation techniques and get really clear about exactly what you want before you manifest love.
Who doesn’t dream of true love? At the very least, daydream about meeting and attracting the man of their dreams and then, of course, living happily ever after! We all want a good relationship, and so many of us are out there looking for our soul mate or ideal boyfriend, but the mistake is focusing on that manifestation method instead of working towards a healthy relationship instead.
That’s what I learned growing up on Disney movies and fairy tales anyway. You may laugh, but what if I say our beloved Disney princesses were on to something?
Dreaming and daydreaming about The One, staying positive through life, and everything soon falling into place — all of those sound quite familiar to anyone who manifests or uses a vision board. (Because it’s the same thing!)
Before I go into the nitty-gritty of how to manifest a boyfriend or a loving relationship, let’s go over the basics of manifestation first.
What on earth is manifestation?
The core of manifestation hinges on the belief that we can intentionally cultivate our dreams into reality through our thoughts, actions, intent, energy, and belief.
But can you use this powerful tool to bring you the right person to be the love of your life? The most important thing is that you believe you can.
So, get rid of all those negative beliefs in your subconscious mind, and start imagining the type of person you want to be your future boyfriend.
The power of positive thinking, as many people say.
Manifestation shares concepts with the Law of Attraction — we attract what we are feeling and thinking.
Manifesting is sending out positive energy in a powerful way and visualizing your goals into reality.
If you’re constantly feeling down and thinking you’d never get a boyfriend, then that’s what is likely going to happen. These common limiting beliefs are keeping you from finding your perfect match or even other potential partners.
But if you’re approaching life like a Disney princess — putting out positive vibes, staying optimistic about romance, and visualizing your dream BF — then it won’t be long before your wishes come true.
How to Manifest a Boyfriend In Five Simple Steps
I’ve got five beginner-friendly steps to help you manifest the boyfriend (or girlfriend) of your dreams.
So let’s get down to the good stuff.
1. Decide on What You Want and Why You Want It
The first step is to get a clear view of your goals and plant the seed of intent.
The “what” in this step is a boyfriend (or girlfriend). You can still be more specific, though. Ask yourself, what kind of relationship do you want? What kind of guy do you want? What kind of person are you hoping to attract?
Next, you need to answer the “whys”
Why do you want a relationship? And why now? Your answers to these questions can determine whether you’re ready for a relationship in the eyes of the Universe.
Be honest with me: if your reason for wanting to have a boyfriend is to make someone jealous or to get revenge on someone, will you be giving out and attracting positive vibes?
I think not.
However, if your underlying reason for wanting to attract a guy is because you feel ready for it and want to experience a loving partnership, then that’s the kind of energy the Universe will respond to positively.
2. Visualize It and Embody It
Visualization is a large part of manifestation.
The next step is to visualize what it would feel like to be in a loving relationship in present tense. Who is your dream partner? What does quality time with them feel like? This will immediately up your vibrational frequency. Because if you act like you’ve already got it, then the universe assumes you do, and there you go.
Embody the feeling of being in love, the ideal relationship with your life partner and how good it feels in your everyday life. Make mini-movies about your newfound serious relationship in your mind, play it on loop, and get yourself excited about having a boyfriend!
Remember, in manifestation, your energy is what cultivates and attracts your reality.
There are countless ways you can visualize and embody your intent to find your dream partner and the perfect relationship.
There’s the TikTok viral 369 manifestation, which draws upon the power of numbers. This manifestation technique involves writing your intent three, six, and nine times in the morning, afternoon, and evening, respectively.
You can also try the pillow method, where you write down your affirmations or manifesting statement and sleep on it by putting it under your pillow.
I’m quite partial to journaling and using visual boards as a way to channel my energy, but you can try whichever technique works for you.
3. Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs
Get rid of any negative thoughts and notions about having a boyfriend, manifesting a boyfriend, or just getting into a loving relationship.
Limiting beliefs are the negativity that surrounds you and constrains you.
If you know what positive affirmations are, then this is easy — limiting beliefs are the EXACT opposite of positive affirmations. And positive affirmations are exactly what you need to counter your limiting beliefs.
Some examples of limiting beliefs include:
- I’m unlovable.
- True love only exists in fairy tales.
- There’s no such thing as soulmates or I’ll never find my soulmate.
- I’m not attractive / cute / sexy / interesting enough.
- I’ll grow old alone.
Similar to how positive affirmations can pave the way to you getting a boyfriend, then limiting beliefs can block your way.
4. Align Your Actions
If you’re pushing out intent and energy about finding The One, then align your actions with it. Don’t ignore any opportunities the Universe sends your way!
Keep an eye out for potential opportunities to meet new people and step outside of your comfort zone.
Don’t just sit around in your room! Yes, you should trust the Universe to work its magic but for that to happen, you need to be proactive, as well.
On the flip side, though — not everything is a sign from the Universe! Be smart about reading the signs.
Don’t say yes or pursue someone who doesn’t match the qualities you’re looking for in a boyfriend. That’s just you pointing the Universe in the wrong direction.
5. Surrender and Let Go
Okay, I’ll say it — this step’s the hardest. But you need to learn how to step back and surrender your love life to the Universe
Do not obsess over specific outcomes. That’s not healthy and doesn’t emit any positive energy. It’s also a whole other matter from visualizing your intent.
Obsessing over your progress and certain outcomes shows the Universe that you don’t believe in manifesting.
Just be open for love and your ideal partner and trust the Universe to work its magic.
No Room for Doubt
I know what some of you might be saying right now: “Those steps are too vague!
They’re more like generic tips!” Some of you might even be starting to doubt me and the process.
Don’t be like that.
If there is ever one thing that would undo all work you put into manifesting, it’s having doubt.
There’s no place for wishy-washy feelings for anyone who wants to manifest anything!
These steps I gave may seem generic or vague to some but it all serves a very important purpose: they help you visualize your goal, focus your emotions, and align your intentions with the universe.
They help you let go of thoughts, beliefs, and emotions that can hold you back and block you from connecting with the universe.
Listen to What the Universe Is Saying
The five steps I mentioned are the core to manifesting virtually anything — not just how to manifest a boyfriend.
When you follow those steps, you are laying the foundation for the Universe to build your dreams, whatever they may be.
Trust me when I say manifesting will bring you the loving relationship you’re looking for. Most importantly, trust the process and trust that the Universe will give what’s best for you.
Good luck, godspeed, and may you soon find your happily ever after!