It all comes down to love, doesn’t it? We can do as much work as we want on ourselves, we can build beautiful lives around ourselves, rich with community and friendships, but in the end, we all want to know: will I find my true love?
We turn to tarot, zodiac, numerology, crystals, psychics, and more to help us find true love.
But you know what? The truth is that every single person finds love, just like anything else, when they are ready for it.
This is not just anecdotal, it has been proven time and time again.
You’ve heard the expression, “when the student is ready, the master will appear?”
The same goes for love. When you are ready, love will appear.
Numerology and Love
When you go looking for love numerology predictions, the most any divination tool – tarot, astrology, or even a psychic can tell you, is what your proclivities are, what your predilections are, and what you are predisposed to.
And even that is not an exact science.
Because you are more than just your numerology number, more than your star signs, more than any psychic can read on you.
You came here to earth in this specific human form with a specific set of human intentions.
So, your numerology number can tell you what path love might hold for you, but it is up to you to really understand your number, your sign, and what the universe is trying to tell you, as well as how to interpret it.
Your Love Number
To get your numerology love prediction, you will take your birthdate number.
Your birthdate number can be calculated as follows: take your date, month, and year, and add them up to get a single digit.
So, if you were born December 10 of 1989, you would calculate
1+2 to get 3 then 1+0 to get 1, then add the 3 to the 1 to get 4. Then add 1+9+8+9 to get 27, so you add 2+7 to get 9. Then add the 4 to the 9 to get 13. Finally add 1+3 to get 4.
Your numerology number is 4
Once you figured out your number, you can check out your numerology love predictions.
1 Number 1 is ruled by Mars, which is good news in 2022. You can expect an expansion of love relationships. Hold your friends and family close, and consider marriage if you are in a serious relationship. If you are already in love, expect a good time this year. Allow your love to grow.
In romantic love, ones are most compatible with 3, 7, and 9.
2 Twos are most romantically compatible with 4 and 9, and would do well to fall in love slowly as they can become consumed by their partner’s emotions and lifestyle. Take care to be your own person in your relationship.
As this year is a particularly emotional year for twos, be extra careful to give your partner some space, or you might overwhelm them and push them away.
3 Threes are feeling generous in love this year, so a mutually beneficial partnership will do well. Of course this can backfire with a greedy or selfish partner who is all give and no take.
3 is highly compatible with all other base numbers as they are hard workers and will dedicate themselves to making a relationship work. So try to have fun in love this year as well as all that work.
4 4 will do best with an 8 as then pair can fall into a deep and long abiding relationship that maintains its romance throughout.
Just be careful this year not to let debates escalate as they can spin out of control, with passions high, and end up in pain and suffering.
5 Five is feeling volatile in love this year, so avoid unnecessary arguments.
5 is most compatible with 1, 3, 5, and 9, and is best off building slowly from friendship to blossoming love. Don’t rush it.
6 6 finds romance with 1, 3, and 9 and exists to love and be loved in return. They can turn any relationship into a romantic one, so be wise and create boundaries if romance is not on your mind.
Be yourself in love this year 6, and watch your relationship grow.
7 This year calls for great patience in love for sevens. Emotions are high and trouble is quick to enter your mind. Put your ego aside, breathe, and listen.
7 can be compatible with 1, 3, 4, 6, and 8, and the 4 compatibility can feel particularly wild and radical.
8 Compatible with 1, 3, 5, and 6, Eights are attracted to lightheartedness and play as well as a quick wit.
This is your year to let go of your stubbornness and hard headed temperament and be influenced by your partner’s lighthearted nature.
9 Prepare to grow closer in love this year, Nine.
Compatible with 1, 2, 3, and 6, it will be up to you to find common ground while also expressing yourself authentically. This is your time to be the friend in your relationship, and watch it flourish.
Grain of Salt
I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again and again as many times as necessary. Take all of this with a grain of salt.
If you are not in love yet, you will find love. If you are in love, these messages are meant to be taken lightly and gently. Ease your way into them, and find the gift and the lesson that resonate most with you.
Divination is tricky and vague and can come through the strangest of channels. Sometimes it hits perfectly and you can feel it vibrating through you like “yes! This is for me!” Other times it feels like you’re on the wrong radio station and the song is off key.
Such is the nature of divination tools.
If you are interested in a deeper understanding of your life path and your numerology specifics, look into hiring a reliable numerologist, someone who can tap into the universe much more clearly and can help you see yourself and your chosen path better.
Remember, the long term goal is for you to do this divination work for yourself, rather than relying on outside sources, so it would be extremely helpful if you do have this goal in mind to find a numerologist who might be willing to mentor you.
Love Is an Inside Job
Outside of numerology, tarot, crystals, or any other divination tool or psychic, but still deeply grounded in spirituality is the reminder that love is an inside job.
Before you can love anyone else, you have to love yourself.
Before you can attract love, you have to love yourself.
The basics of the law of attraction make this explicit.
You attract what you are.
If you are love, you will attract love.
So, the very best thing you can do if you are looking for the love of your life, if you are in search of your soulmate, or if you are just looking for a fun fling, is to become the thing you hope to bring into your life.
Get into the spirit.
Meditate on who you want in your life, and meditate on how to become that person.
When you sit in meditation, see yourself already as that person.
Who is she? What does she look and feel like? How does she take care of herself? How does she show herself and others that she is the epitome of love?
Tips for Attracting and Staying in Love
Practice Self Care
The first thing you can do to become love is to take good basic care of yourself.
People who love themselves truly, unconditionally, treat their bodies like temples – eat good food, exercise, sleep eight hours a night, drink lots of water, learn something new everyday, and have fun!
Practice Self Love
Slightly different from self care, show yourself that you love yourself on every level.
Take yourself out on a date, romance yourself, treat yourself to gifts and indulgences. Treat yourself exactly as you would your romantic partner, or like you want them to treat you once you’re together.
This way, when you do hook up with someone, they will know how to treat you, and you won’t settle for less.
Love the Ones You’re With
In the meantime, love the ones you’re with.
You are surrounded by people every single day you can love – friends, family, coworkers, strangers on the street.
Be kind, be loving, really exude love from every part of yourself.
Before you know it, you’ll be a different, more loving person.
And you will attract only the best, truest, most sincere love you can imagine.
Finally, remember that at our very best, our truest selves are love. We literally come from love and we will return to love when we die. So, it does not take so much effort to step into the space. It just takes getting out of your own way.